December 21st

Last December, Marc and I celebrated our 14th Anniversary. As usual, we kept it simple enough. The only fancy thing about our day was the beautiful cake we asked our friend Indie to make for us. It was so beautifully made. And it tasted so good with the homemade filling. We loved it! Even our boys were in awe to see such a classy looking treat on our table. We've always wanted a fancy cake, since we never had one, so when we thought about our special day, we both decided to look on Pinterest for ideas and found a picture of what we thought would be the ideal cake for us. I sent the link to Indie to ask her if she could make it and she agreed to do it. We were quite excited about it. Isn't she such a great friend?

We made it to fourteen years and are looking forward to the years we have ahead of us. While I don't mean for this post to be too cheesy, I am afraid it will sound somewhat cheesy but I promise to tell the truth and only the truth.

I honestly think that my husband is the perfect husband. I want my boys to be like their dad. To love their wives the way their dad loves me and treat their wives the way their dad does.

While Marc is not a perfect human being, he definitely is perfect as a husband (and father), to me anyway. His motto as a husband seems to be 'whatever is easier for you'. I think I have mentioned this before but here I am again. Marc says I love you to me multiple times a day. Before he leaves for work, and before he goes to bed are a given but then he does it also via emails and texts. On week ends, he lets me sleep and closes the door so the boys don't bother me. He will just patiently wait unless we have plans or places to go to. Marc is probably the most respectful husband I know. He treats me with the utmost respect and reminds the boys daily that I am his love and that as such they need to be respectful  and would not tolerate them to be disrespectful to me in any way. He serves me like no other human being does. He loves and cares for me as if I was the most precious thing he "owns". Anything he thinks would make my life easier he takes care of. He was/is my hands when I need help and has promised me that he would be my legs when mine would fail me. He does so much for me. There are no words to truly describe the way we truly are with each other. Marc does almost anything to please me and show me that he loves me. He tells it to me daily with those three little words but also through his actions. I am truly blessed! Because we are not a perfect couple, we do argue. Not all the time but it does happen. I thank my Heaven Father for blessing me with a wonderful husband. I love that he consults me on everything. My opinion matters to him. He doesn't just makes decisions for us. We always do it together.

I can go on describing the kind of man he is. Like I said before he is not a perfect human being but as a husband, he is pretty perfect to me. Early on in our marriage we decided what kind of spouses we would be to each other. I think we are really good to each other and take care of each other as perfectly as we can. Nevertheless, WE ARE NOT PERFECT! If we were we wouldn't have arguments at all. But we are working on it.  I truly think that he makes me a better wife because of the kind of husband he is.

Here's to more years together as husband and wife.

Flowers from my love!